Quick Tips for Discussions & Disagreements between Spouses
Begin with the intention to resolve the issue:
If both spouses have this intention and plan to consult together, it is more likely that there will be a successful resolution.
Remember that it takes two to quarrel:
If one person chooses not to argue, there will be no argument.
Both spouses should not be angry at the same time:
If one of the spouses becomes upset, it is best if the other tries to remain calm and collected.
Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire:
Of course, house fires do not occur very frequently; yelling should occur at about the same rate.
Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled:
This is one of the worst things that can happen in a marriage and should be avoided as much as possible. This allows hurt feelings and thoughts to linger and generally exacerbates the problem.
If one spouse needs to win, let it be your mate:
Do not focus on winning yourself; this is the main reason that discussions tend to become heated.
Stop the Fights!
